So we're changing everything. We're both looking forward to it a little more now that it's actually going to be easier. It seems more like a real wedding instead of a sorta wedding.
It will be simpler but fancy. I think we'll like it. It hurts to cut the guest list but in the end it's likely nobody will remember. What else can I do? Nada.
Details will come later. Feel free to ask if you want to know.
And here's my a-hole request as the star spaz of the day- If it is your heart's deepest desire to attend our wedding and you live far away or I haven't seen you in a long time please do make sure I know. We are trying to invite as many people as we can but we can't invite everyone we want to. If I'm not able to invite someone who has told me they want to come I at least want to be able to tell them they aren't being forgotten.
It's not PC and all that shit but....everybody will get over it eh.
It will be simpler but fancy. I think we'll like it. It hurts to cut the guest list but in the end it's likely nobody will remember. What else can I do? Nada.
Details will come later. Feel free to ask if you want to know.
And here's my a-hole request as the star spaz of the day- If it is your heart's deepest desire to attend our wedding and you live far away or I haven't seen you in a long time please do make sure I know. We are trying to invite as many people as we can but we can't invite everyone we want to. If I'm not able to invite someone who has told me they want to come I at least want to be able to tell them they aren't being forgotten.
It's not PC and all that shit but....everybody will get over it eh.
I feel like I never shut up about it but it's on my brain a LOT, and far more often than I'd like.
There's the people who WANT to come, those who want to but can't, there's people who feel obligated to come, there's people who would come if it worked out, there's people who will come unless they're on their deathbed, and then those who don't care for weddings all that much to begin with.
We want to see the ones who want to be there, for whatever reason. If someone doesn't want to or is unable to come that's ok. I assume folks feel the same way about invites but who knows. I've gotten invites from people I never expected (and several I never replied to, which I'm a jerk for but I was young and forgetful) and I didn't get invites from people I assumed I would. I never really cared about weddings but I feel like I'm supporting someone if I'm there. Not that I'm NOT supporting them if I'm NOT there... Though that may have been the case, maybe not. I dunno. I over think it because it's a weird time. Weird ordeal. I wish it could be different actually but there are rules and junk. Anyway... Fresh start kinda. Yay!
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